Not that we dare to classify or compare ourselves with some of those who are commending themselves. But when they measure themselves by one another and compare themselves with one another, they are without understanding. 2 Corinthians 10:12 (ESV)
For am I now seeking the approval of man, or of God? Or am I trying to please man? If I were still trying to please man, I would not be a servant of Christ. Galatians 1:10 (ESV)
Do you at times find that you compare yourself to others? I believe we all are guilty of doing this from time to time. And in this digital age of constantly consuming vanity-driven images, it is a little hard not to.
Even when we are not being bombarded with various media platforms, we will at times compare ourselves with those close to us; those who are in our concentric circles of life. For example, we may try to compare ourselves to a family member, a friend, a classmate (this is a given when in grade school), a co-worker, or strangers on social media and the list can go on and on.
However, what we need to always remember is that we are God’s beautifully created children and, He does not want us to compare ourselves to one another. It is a waste of time and energy to do so. He created each of us to possess unique qualities and abilities that should not be compared. Now, some of us will share similar gifts and talents however, we are still a different and unique creation from one another.
Now when dealing with comparisons it is safe to say that even if we do not compare ourselves to another, other people at times will. In school, the workplace, social circles, society, etc. What they are doing does not make it right and, their behavior can affect your emotional well-being. When this happens, you must always realize whose you are and who created you, the Awesome Creator of the universe!! Be strong during those times and not allow another’s misconceived ideals to dictate the beautiful person you were created to be.
So as you go forth in life, seek to not compare yourself to one another and seek to be the beautiful child of God you were created to be. Go forth and spread God’s message of hope and love to the world, using the gifts and talents He has given to you use.
Blessings,
Angélique
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