Where Is Your Empathy?

“So, whatever you wish that others would do to you, do also to them, for this is the Law and the Prophets.” Matthew 7:12ESV

No one wants to suffer heartbreak or pain. Suffering can come in the form of physical, emotional, mental, financial, and spiritual pain. When we’re down, we look to God, family, and friends to “pick us up” again. At those times, we are needing them to understand and, in a way, share our feelings during those trying moments. This is the definition of empathy: the ability to understand and share the feelings of another.

Most of us identify with empathy and for the most part, have shown the ability to care for others when they are in need. However, there are those in this world who do not have empathy for others, or if they do, it is either for a select few or for none at all. For some, they have a life where everything is going well for them and their loved ones. This “perfect” life may lead them to have less caring and compassion for others, who are not as fortunate. They carelessly think, and sometimes say to those struggling, “Oh, just get over it! You are always complaining or whining about your situation!!”

As stated before, all of us will go through some form of heartbreak or pain. When we have gone through our trials, God expects us to “reach back” to help others. To show compassion and empathy for a Brother or Sister. Even if you never had their problems, we all have the ability to have empathy for one another. To let them know you care and will do what you can to help in some way. Even if you cannot do much, just offering to be there can make all the difference to the person who is suffering.

In this chaotic time of Earth’s history (i.e. pandemic, economic collapse, racial strife, climate changes, etc.), it can be taxing on everyone to continue to have empathy for others. Everyone seems to be going through additional stresses and trying moments right now. However, through prayer and staying connected to God, we can bring compassion and empathy to others, even while we perhaps are still hurting. At those times we can look to focus not only on ourselves, but on helping someone else. In so doing, we will be fulfilling God’s commandment to love one another.

As God’s words so eloquently state:

“Finally, all of you, have unity of mind, sympathy, brotherly love, a tender heart, and a humble mind.“ 1 Peter 3:8ESV

Blessings,

Angélique~